10 Reasonable Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love.

10 reasonable Reasons why people fall out of love.
Getting to know why will help you to prevent falling out of love. At times it doesn’t last a lifetime. In this article, I will try my best to point out some of the reasons why people fall out of love which you may be guilty of.

1. Lack of communication. When there disagreement where not resolved, needs may not be expressed and affirmations went unspoken. Good communication is a key to building a healthy relationship therefore lack of it dissolves one.

2. Taking each other for granted. Love is easily assumed to be unconditional, so people tends to take each other for granted and therefore get lazy with each other. If the respect and kindness disappears, love follows suit.

3. Their expectations were not satisfied. Initially, people easily accommodates their partners' needs and wishes. Over time, people tends to default to ‘just being themselves’ and they will stop submitting to their partner’s expectation especially when those expectations are not shared ones.

4. Unusual act. One of them may discover something new about his/her partner. When one discovers the partner is concealing something from him/her, maybe through cheating or behave in a way that’s inconsistent with an another assumed person, can do irreparable damage to the relationship. Betrayal can alter how one feel about their partner.

5. Overpowering jealousy. Yes, it is obvious that your partner wants you for himself or herself. When jealousy takes over, there will be no room for trust.

6. Relationship that wasn’t built on a solid foundation. A relationship that was started poorly, moved too fast initially, or product of an affair, is not possibly a rooted relationship. It doesn’t last and it doesn’t prevail over real relationship obstacles.

7. Inconsistency. A couple may discover that their lifestyle, priorities and ethics didn’t correspond with each other’s. They might get to know one another until the initial fireworks die down.

8. Boredom. The relationship has lost its glow and become exhausted. It will now become too much work for one or both partner's to handle.

9. A life event changes things. A man may no longer take his partner as a lover because she has given birth. He now sees her as a mother. Someone that got fired may sunk into depression and refuses the help of the partner.

10. Lust disguised as love. It was not love in the first place. Lust may disguise itself as love. It may leave the relationship in a state of emptiness and lacking. This occurs once the honeymoon is over.