6 facts about having Friends with Benefit

Does a relationship with no strings attached ever ends well? What runs through the mind every single girl with guy bestie is whether to have sex with or not to have sex with him. An acknowledged far stretch from the Shakespearian spinoff, you have to admit, this issue demands for some serious thought. He has already put you in an odious obsession, giving ear to you about co-workers, and makes a mean bacon egg and cheese… why wouldn’t you have sex with him?

For Justin timberlake and Mila kunis in friends with benefits, it ended well successfully- but we all know that is not always how it happens.

Here are six truths about having FWB that blurs the line about friendship:

1. It renders a valuable lesson in sex education.

There are many quotes existing which suggests that friendships are ones learn from. Shirley who became aware that she and her guy friend Michael have a common sexual appetite, she concluded is the best idea to invite to pay her a visit at her school to see how the night with him will take them to. She immediately regretted it because Michael was becoming interested in having a taste of college experience which his belittled university was lacking instead of hooking up with her.

Shirley later ended up in getting sex ed lesson rather getting off and considering the whole visit a loss. “It was my first of seeing an uncircumcised penis,” she later remarked. “Later when he left I was quickly repelled; not by penis, but by the character he exhibited and the whole night—and I started avoiding his calls and texts till today”.

2. fuck- buddies have an expiration date.

Always consider that before you get on with someone you can’t imagine your life without. Nicole started to hook up with her friend Ben last February, who caused her to be acquainted with a new sexual experience, and finally feelings of attachment. “The first day we hooked up, I told him that I had never had an orgasm before when having sex, while we were having sex,” she said. “He suddenly assured me that I was about learning.” It turned out he was right and she continued to learn throughout the summer. She lied and told him and his friends that she doesn’t have any feeling for him, that it was strictly business. In spite of her growing attachment, the two continued to hook up, until she later found out one day that he was dishing out about their sexual activities all over the place. “He would tell his friends that I squirted, and now they refer to my vagina as the ‘Holy Grail’ and also nicknamed me ‘Squirtle,’ after the Pokemon character.” Yeah, this friendship (whether with benefits or not) is officially considered over.

3. it’s possible to keep up with the friendship after sex.

The first day that Karen and her friend Chris hooked up, she realized that mid-blowjob giggles aren’t a turn on exactly. “I could not help it! While I was giving him the blowjob, I laughed because I just thought it was so funny and this made him to become nervous,” she said. “I explained to him that I wasn’t laughing but laughing at the scenario—but it didn’t change anything.”

Obviously, she didn’t end up finishing the blowjob but two of them maintained a great friendship… outside the bedroom.

4. Anything goes as long as both parties are on the same page.

This is one the best part of a friends with benefits. “I have been hooking with my guy friend for about eleven months but the word ‘friends with benefits’ didn’t truly line up for me.” Steph said. “I couldn’t help but to start to really like him even though I wasn’t looking for a relationship.” She said. “He explained to me that he wasn’t looking to date me but will drop comments like; ‘I love being around you’ and ‘you always make me laugh’ blah, blah, blah.” She said. “I later told him that I can’t keep up with him if the relationship will not result to anything. He then told me that he can’t keep up with the relationship due to academic reason and further said that he loved me as a person. As though he would start to fail his classes or get kicked out of school if he happen to be my boyfriend… yeah, sure.”

Despite those excuses, steph kept relationship strictly platonic. “Yeah, we agreed to stay as friends but I can’t really hook up with him again because I can’t give myself up to someone who claims to actually like me but not enough to date me.

5. Sleep over past 9:00 a.m.

This November, I stayed overnight in a guy friend’s house after a heavy drink even though I knew I have to wake up early to join some friends in a football game.” Said Nancy. She wake up by eight, and decided to go back to sleep instead engaging with her plans.. Sneaking out. “When we met around noon, he demanded for sex again, so we had it and he dropped it off an hour later.” She said. She later came to realize that their morning romp was not as much fun as their alcohol-fueled hook up. “If another hook up presents itself again, I won’t turn it down altogether, but definitely I won’t be sticking around for the morning edition. Nothing good happens after 9.00 a.m.”

6. Respect is important.

The man was able to hang out with Jane who was hanging out with his friends without it being weird. The secret was that they valued each other’s relationship. He respects who she is with and she respects who he is with, because at the end of the day they respects each other. They hook up when neither of them is seeing anyone, because it’s easy and fun.